FREE Dating directory and services. You will find the best dating service on Meet Date - Dating Directory.
  Home   Add Url   Link to Us Contact Us Contact Us   Bookmark this site!   Make Your homepage
Lavalife: Where Singles Click!
Search entire directory by title, description, url - the best dating site for single parents!
Relationship Insecurity

Relationships are really very complex things. We build up a lifetime's worth of experiences and thoughts and expect to meet someone who will be compatible with our own unique take on the world. It's no wonder that we run in to compatibility issues.

As we grow up, we form our needs and wants mainly from our childhood experiences which is an extremely personal thing for us. Within a relationship, there is the added complication of a myriad of emotions that go with love.

So how can it be that we can be at our loneliest when actually in a relationship? Well to answer this question, we need to look at the kind of things that happen to ourselves during a relationship and particularly what happens to us when things start to go wrong.

One of the most crucial aspects is what happens to our 'identity' and our relationship to 'our self'. In a perfect environment, two people in a relationship will join together and form a dual identity whilst still retaining key aspects of their own personalities and lifestyle. Things start to go wrong when one of the people feels that they are not getting enough back from the other…either rightly or wrongly. This situation, once started can escalate and ultimately destroy the relationship.

Looking at the diagram below, where do you see yourself in your relationship? As we have discovered, things can go wrong when we feel that we are not getting enough back, but the problem here is that even if we are not getting our needs met, we can either feel depressed by this or examine whether or not our needs are justified and how we can take steps to modify our own needs to suit the relationship whilst not compromising our own values and identity.

As people, we all have complex needs and desires, some of which will be unreasonable but nevertheless they are part of us. If you imagine all these needs as people in their own right with the 'rational' part of you in the centre, you can start to identify where the problem areas lie.

It is the person in the centre who represents the 'director' amongst this 'cast' of people. Try to think of the cast as people who are looking to the director for guidance and let him take centre stage rather than letting the others run riot. By doing this, you start to regain control and consequently your attitude to the relationship becomes far more functional. You may not feel the 'boss' in the relationship, but you will feel the 'boss' of yourself which will eventually take the heat off the relationship problems.

Our Partners
View Source The Best Dating Resources - TOPDATE.INFO
spacer The best online dating sites and and links to other sites.Singles sites, dating clubs to find the best singles and personals. List of the best dating sites on the net. Add your site for free.
View Source All Date Directory
spacer Free Online Dating Directory.A comprehensive resource of dating web sites arranged by categories
View Source Prepaid Calling Cards, Best Worldwide Phone Cards |
spacer Buy best calling cards, international calling cards, prepaid calling cards, cheap calling cards, long distance calling cards in minutes. Cheap phone card for USA and international calling
View Source Top Dating Sites. Dating top list.
spacer The top web dating services sites list. You will find the best dating service on Top Dating.
View Source Meet Date - Top Web Sites.
spacer Here You will find the best dating service on Meet Date - Top Web Sites.
Directory Statistics
190  Categories
919  Sites In Directory
Submit Your Site Submit Site
bottom side
New Tips & Articles
» Resolve Marriage Problems
Marriage is a huge commitment to make. When you get married to your spouse, you take vows to love, honor, and cherish them for as long as you both live. You need to try your best to be the best spouse possible. A little kindness and sensitivity can go a l more »
» Dating in the Dark
Dining in a pitch black restaurant....... Just when you thought that internet dating companies had exhausted all the different dating methods, dating in the dark is set to be the newest dating game for singles to enjoy. more »
» Condoms and an HIV Positive Spouse or Partner
One of the more devastating moments in a person's life is finding out that a spouse or partner has been diagnosed with HIV more »
» How To Choose The Best Furnace Filter
It may be difficult to imagine, but houses have lots of dust and selecting the best furnace filter is very important to air quality. Indoor air, according to the U.S. Environmental Protection Agency, is two to five times more polluted than the outdoor air more »
» How Not To Become a Victim of Crime
Did you know that every 90 seconds, somewhere in America someone is sexually assaulted? 17.6% of all women in the United States have survived a completed or attempted rape. more »
Chat with russian ladies
Main  |  Add Url  |  Suggest Category  |  Dating Tips & Articles  |  Cheap shared hosting  |  Prepaid Calling Cards  |  Link to us  |  Sitemap  |  Contact Us
Copyright (©) 2004-2018 Meet Date Directory. All Rights Reserved.