Guys are you having relationship problems, can't get a date or just don't plain understand what women want? There seems to be a lot of that going around. Do you find yourself dateless, bored and lonely on the weekends? If you've answered "yes" to any of the above questions, then I am here to help.

Yes, I am a guy too and I don't really consider myself a Don Juan but I have had good luck in the dating and relationship department if I may say so myself. And why is that you may ask. That is because I have talked to women. What I mean is that I have really talked to women to find out exactly what they want in a guy and a relationship. Here are a few tips that I found out by listening to women. I hope they can help you.

Tip #1 - Women like men that will take charge. (Unless you are dating a female wrestler). Now I don't mean being a bully or a control freak, what I'm talking about is a man that knows he's a man (not a mouse) and that will take care of his lady. Respect her, do things for her that will make her happy. No matter how small you think it might be, it will prove to your lady that you care about her and love doing those small things that will make her smile. Open doors for her, take her out for ice cream (or her favorite treat), tell her how nice she looks when you see her, give her a present every now and then just for the heck of it. It doesn't have to be expensive, it could even be a special day of something she likes to do. Now I know that you're thinking this all sounds lame, but to a woman, it is one of the best things that you can do to show her that you care.

Tip #2 - Listen to her. No, I mean really listen to her. We as men have an awful habit of tuning out women when they want to talk. We have better things to do like watching the football game on TV. Right? Wrong! That is one of the deadliest sins you can commit to hack off your woman. When she wants to talk, that means she wants to talk NOW. That doesn't mean that you should blow her off until later when the game is over. No matter how much it hurts, turn off the TV and really listen to her. Women are fragile creatures but they can turn into the devil within a matter of seconds. Protect yourself and listen to what she has to say. After she gets done telling you her problems, at least give her an intelligent response to let her know that you were at least half-listening. Don't just sit there and look dumb and say, "I don't know".

Tip #3 - Like her friends and her family. (Or at least pretend to). I know at times this will be difficult. Especially when she wants to double date again with her Tansmanian Devil girlfriend and her Jugheaded boyfriend. The last thing you want to do is to spend another weekend with that pair. But ask yourself this question before spouting off that you refuse to go. How important is your girlfriend to you? If she is the one you want to spend the rest of your life with, you'd better go and just be happy that she will be there with you no matter how excruciating the night may be. Bottom line: Friends and family are a very important part of your girlfriend's life. If you can't deal with it, then you need to find another girlfriend. Don't constantly argue and fight about her friends and family members if she is someone you truly care about. It will only bite you in the butt in the end.

Tip #4 - Pick your battles. In a nutshell, don't argue over petty things, don't bring up past arguements and be fair. If you are constantly arguing over the little stuff, then the big stuff won't matter because it will always be one big argument and what fun is that?

DO's and DONT'S -

DON'T compare her to previous girlfriends. DON'T ogle other women when she is around. DON'T call her fat, stupid or ugly. DON'T stand her up on a date or not call when you say you're going to. DON'T embarrass her in front of her family and friends (like farting, burping or doing your impression of PeeWee Herman). DO be kind, thoughtful and respectful of her at all times. DO show her every day that you care for her. DO be attentive to her needs and wants. DO whatever she says. Just kidding!

Seriously, a relationship is 50-50. I'm not implying here at all that you should be henpecked and submissive to all her whims. What I am saying is that if you do your part and treat her like a human being with feelings, then the relationship will go much smoother. And if you really care for this lady, then it should be a breeze.

If you need more help with relationships and the problems that go with them, or the lack of a relationship, check these out How To Be Irresistible To Women/Men , Get Your Ex Girlfriend Back , How To Pick Up Sexy Chicks , Seduction For Guys In Relationships , The Magic Of Making Up (Get Your Ex Back) , Relationship Mastery 101 and 500 Secrets About Girls Every Guy Should Know .